1 year ago
Ever hear of a "frenemy?" It's actually a pal who you don't like very much: friend + enemy = frenemy.
Not everybody has them, but for those of us who do, it's always tough to figure out how to deal with them.
When they ask you to hang out, do you find excuses to ditch them?
When they call you up, do you pretend not to be home?
When they ask you how they look, do you TOTALLY LIE?
Most important question of all...how do you get rid of these people?!!?
We totally need to hear your awesome tips, stories, tales about the biggest FRENEMY disasters in your life. DO tell!
this girl crys everyday and she sits alone and i went over to see if she was ok and she hugs me and now she says we r best friends and wont let me hav any other friends and she tried to ask m out my crush but he said "uhhh sorry, i umm like someone else and then he looked at me and she tries to hug him but he dodges and runs away and she fell and i cover my mouth cuz i was laughing and then she screamed out hey guess who likes you! so i run over to him and say i do and now he sits with me everyday and holds my hand and we r like kinda going out
oh yeah and she broke my mini snowglobe my gramma gave me b4 she died!
OMG I HATE MY FRENEMY! SHE DOESNT RESPECT MY PERSONAL SPACE AND HAS NO FRIENDS AND JUST DESIDED THAT IM HER BEST FRIEND AND SHE FOLLOWS ME EVERYWHERE AND THEN WHEN I TELL HER ME AND MY REAL BESTIES WANT SOME TIME TO OURSELVES SHE FAKES SAD AND THEN SAYS THAT THERES NOBODY ELSE TO HANG WITH WHEN WE ALWAYS SEE HER WITH OTHER PPLS! AND I LOST A PENCIL WITH MY NAME ENGRAVED IN IT (I DID DAT WITH MY COMPASS FROM MY GEOMETRY SET) AND SHE CARVED LINES THROUGH MY NAME AND TOLD EVERYONE IT WAS HERS AND NEVER GAVE IT BACK! AND SHES UGLY AND GOT 7/20 ON THE LAST SPELLING QUIZ THE CLASS HAD AND CALLED ME A 'DUMMY WHO CANT SPELL' WHEN I GOT 19/20 (STUPID 'U' IN COLOUR!) AND I HATE HER IM GONNA BREAK IT OFF TOMORROW!!!!!!!!!!!! NO MATTER HOW SHE TAKES IT!
There is this girl who just moved to my school. She's so annoying and tells everyone that I'm her bff. we live out in the country and she's from the city so she's really hyper and annoying. She calls me annoying nicknames also. She's really nice but sooo annoying. No one else likes her so I don't want to be mean. She's clingy and she also tries to act like me and I can't get her to go away!!!!!
i have this clingy frenemy, Angela. and she is just so so clingy and follows me everywhere and my friends hate her and tel me they wont like me anymore if angela hangs around ive tried telling her nicely if me and my pals can have some alone time and she squints at me and doesnt leave and know what? next time she follows me around i'm gonna take a stand and say 'Angela, me and my friends want some alone time, and i cant be ur friend anymore if u dont give us that respect.' then i'll walk away with my buds and if she follows i'll give her the hand!
i have a frenmy shes such a bitch she knows my crush and she's tell me and him lies,omgg she likes Every single guy i like she needs a LIFE
I have a frenamy i really need help with she has th biggest mood swings,she has hair like a rats nest,allways copies me,thinks she way better than everyone but wants to be like me,a lier,allways showing off,and allways trying to get atention she said that her parents are getting a divorsebut i dont believe her
im very sadden with ur guuyes stories
i gotta frenemy. she wears these shorts in school with a halter and in gym guess what she wears. guess. no? SPANKEES. (i'll call her Anne) Anne wears SPANKEES in gym. she gets detention like every day and she doesnt care! and she just flaunts her way past the boys and makes sure to show off her D cups and her thong so they will like her. I mean honestly! she is a DUMMY and she has these curly-wavy poufy lite brown locks that she dyes this sunny golden shade and pretends its all natural. I HATE HER! shes such a showoff! and all the boys surround her like shes the sun, moon, and stars. she used to be such a nice girl and we were BFF in elementary school. now we're going into 7th grade. and she wrote me for locker partners and we're sharing a locker! AUGH!
I have a frendemy who is so anoying she is in 2 of my class periods and she is OBSESSED with me! she ALWAYS has to sit by me in every thing and always wants to be my partner in thngs like bio and science. I SWARE she is GAY ask any of my friends they agre!
I have a frenemy who copies me, blames me for things i didn't do and thinks everything is a joke!!
i have a frenemy whose name is Guadalupe she is very bitchy. She hardly says anything she just follows us around all the time. And when you talk to her she has this expression on her face like if she's gonna bite you. well i wasn't the one who met her it was my bff. but she didn't like her either she was just nice to her and i guess she thought we were all friends but we wern't we all thought she was anoying. we gave her a nick name "mosca mosca" which means fly fly in spanish becuase she was anoying like a pesky fly. well i told my friend becuase she's not afraid to do anything i told her if she could tell mosca mosca that i didn't want to be friends. well she started crying and was a loner. well that was last year in 7th grade now i'm in 8th grade and she talks trah about me. She's saying that i try to act and dress cool to be popular just becuase i wore skinny jeans to school on picture day. she;s the one who tries to be cool now. her mom bought her these really short shorts and skinny jeans and punkrose shoes and she thins she's all that. Then she got these really ugly highlights that were red when she has curly black hair. She had it ugly! she still talks shit to me but i don't care cause i have a lot of cool and tough chicks behind my back who can beat her up if i told them to. plus the clothes ther mom got her looked weird on her she doesn't have the bod for it she's skinny but has a saggy butt and chicken legs. well now we call her fire fly beacuse her hair is red and is anoying. What do you guys think of the nick name. TELL ME IF YOU FEEL FOR ME OR IF YOU LIKE THE NEW NICKNAME WE GAVE HER!
I have a frenemy called Tiana. shes a complete bitch. she thinks all the boys like her even though shes skinny and ugly,told my friend who i liked even though she wasnt supposed to,stole my ds lite games,said she hated me to everyone and my secrets,hates me because im part of the popular clique and they didnt ask HER to join,and after all that she says and thinks im her bff.weve been friends since 3rd grade and now were going into 7th grade. she frickin stole my crush by telling him i liked him when i wasnt he liked me back and she ruine d my whole 5th grade year!She is so mean this story is simaler to stargirlgeek but only because this is wat actually happened!I feel for u stargirlgeek.
kissing game dont worry dis isnt scary hold you breath copy and past dis add this 2 1 story if you can hold ur breath ur a good kisser . .
i have a frenemy called gabby. shes a complete bitch. she thinks all the boys like her even though shes fat and ugly,told my friend who i liked even though she wasnt supposed to,stole my ds lite games,said she hated me to everyone and my secrets,hates me because im part of the popular clique and they didnt ask HER to join,and after all that she says and thinks im her bff.weve been friends since 3rd grade and now were going into 7th grade. she frickin stole my crush by telling him i liked him when i wasnt he liked me back and she ruine d my whole 5th grade year
marriam, YOU HORRIBLE,DISCUSTING RAPIST! GET OFF THIS SITE IF YOUR GOI GOIN TO TALK LIKE THAT!SOME CHILDREN GO ON THI SIGHT, AND DO YOU WANT THEM TO SEE THAT? I THOUGHT NOT! But otherise,i have a frenemy called Bethany Powell. She is soooo annoying ! she follows me evrywhere and says "HEY BUDDY! WHAT'CHA WANNA DO?" Ugh and she acts like im her bfffffff. Not in this life!..or the afterlife. Bethany Powell, if you see this: SORRRY ITS JUST THAT YOU GET ON MY NERVES SOOOOO MUCH AND I HAVE ASKED ADVICE FROM MY FRIENDS AND THEY TOLD ME TO IGNORE YOU BUT I CANT IF YOUR FOLLOWING ME AROUND AND SHOUTING MY NAME! SORRY!
marriam, YOU HORRIBLE,DISCUSTING RAPIST! GET OFF THIS SITE IF YOUR GOI GOIN TO TALK LIKE THAT!SOME CHILDREN GO ON THI SIGHT, AND DO YOU WANT THEM TO SEE THAT? I THOUGHT NOT! But otherise,i have a frenemy called Bethany Powell. She is soooo annoying ! she follows me evrywhere and says "HEY BUDDY! WHAT'CHA WANNA DO?" Ugh and she acts like im her bfffffff. Not in this life!..or the afterlife. Bethany Powell, if you see this: SORRRY ITS JUST THAT YOU GET ON MY NERVES SOOOOO MUCH AND I HAVE ASKED ADVICE FROM MY FRIENDS AND THEY TOLD ME TO IGNORE YOU BUT I CANT IF YOUR FOLLOWING ME AROUND AND SHOUTING MY NAME! SORRY!
marriam YOU DISGUSTING RAPIST!!!!
i have a frenemy shes really annoyinq nd hyper nd she calls me her "bestie" but rly i cant stand her! i told her that i dont like this guy that i actually have a crush on, and when he asked me out she butted in and was like, "SHE DOESNT LIKE YOU" and then i told her she needs a reality check because the reality is, i never liked her and shes sooo annoying
You avoid her (but not in a mean way) and then eventually sh'll find someone else to bother.
theres a girl (ill call her bobo) and she throws a hissy fit whenever things dont go her way and i didnt walk home with her one day. she yelled and hasnt spoken to me since. WELL BOBO IF U READ THIS GOOD CUZ NEWS FLASH YOU ARENT REALLY MASSIE SO DONT ACT LIKE A BITCH AND USE THE MASSIE EXCUSE TO GET OUT OF EVERYTHING! if u think bobo sounds like a real biznatch, say so this is real ppls
i ingorge her and then i lie about her clothes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i make an axcuse i dont lyk jillian or jaylon(jay-lynn)
alyssajonas... if she's nice invite u dont need sum1 2 tell u what 2 do u choose ur friends,invit she wont ruin ur party and after ull feel like u did the right thing so go for it!!
i dont have a frenemy. not anymore at least. this one girl is always mean and when a new girls came she said " dont et them control you" also the new girl wanted me to go to her party but my enemy said " dont invite her she will ruin the party" that made me rlly upset. theres alotta other stuff shes did but i need help i dont want the new girl to get hurt like i did. any tips please??????
i have the frenemy named jasmyne and she thinks she a princess like adladin's girl"jasmine"
I always say oh im busy w/ bells and that pisses her off and I ALWAYS get called and then just say IM ON THE PHONE!Like duh...And for the looks shes sadly a obese eating machine thats obbsesed with being a VAMPIRE that doesn't exist irl and me and my friend straight up told her GOODBYE!and she cried to the teachers and teh teachers MADE me be her friend.. And when I corrected my friend because she misunderstood something, she called me a know-it-all and my "BFF" said it was a "warning". I can see why people hate her. In her old school, and this school. Lots of people warned me too, to stay away from her. But I didn't listen and now I have a frenemy. I feel used too because I was like a stepping stone to friends. I know it may seem self-centered but I am close to all the girls in my class and when she hanged out with me, she hang out with my other friends, totally ignoring me. She played mean pranks on me twice, and both times I was on the verge of tears.1 was almost breaking my finger.AND SHE also streaked her hair right after I dyed it to be like me and to stand out!IN A HORRIBLE WAY
at first i thought a frenemy is someone who was your friend, and turned to you worst enemy.
xxNekoChanxx tell them they're wrong and if they get mean, FIGHT BACK!!!DONT LET THEM MAKE YOU FEEL BAD!!DONT PUT UP WITH IT!!GET UR OTHER FRIENDS TO BACK U UP IF U HAVE 2!!! FIGHT BACK!!!!
well i've had alot in my life. really three. one in third and fourth who was really mean. i was friends with her but she like brainwashed my best friend!!! they were so mean. now we go to different schools but my ex-bff asks for me and NOW she wants to be my friend. then in sixth grade this girl would actually push me out of the way to get to my bff. while we were talking! she was so mean and bossy. and she would cry for everything little thing!!!! then in 7th grade, this girl got mad cuz i joked around to one of our friends with what she said. but we all new it was a joke but she didnt. now she likes the girl she hates more than me. and she still says we are friends. but we are all not liking her that much. but she is kinda scary when you get her mad. she has been in fights...and won.
Just be extra nice to them and they'll watch your back thinking you're their friend. You benefit anyways. At least that's how I dealt w/ my frenemy since she was in all of my classes and I had to see her freakin face everyday! But if u don't have to see them on a daily basis, just get rid of them gradually. I did that before too. He he!
holy crap marriam ae you freggin serious that gross you rapist!
i hacve 1 her name is shana james omg dont match i dont even no
well u wouldn't be friends with someone u hate...
kissing game dont worry dis isnt scary hold you breath copy and past dis add this 2 1 story if you can hold ur breath ur a good kisser . .
kissing game dont worry dis isnt scary hold you breath copy and past dis add this 2 1 story if you can hold ur breath ur a good kisser . .
My best friend is my frenemy. I used to think she liked the same guy I did. But I know she doesn't & I don't like him anymore either. I feel bad for the way I treated her & I'm gonna try to be a better friend.
Anoymous: Ive tried, but i dont dont wat 2 do:(
I HAVE A FRENAMY IVE KNOWN HER SINCE 2ND GRADE AND HAS GIVEN ME SO MANY PRESENTS AND DOSENT ACCEPT ANY THING BACK I ENJOY THE STUFF BUT I DONT LIKE HER
I'm stuck with a frenemy. She thinks that just because I am her "BFF" she can go and insult me. She even hits our other BFFs! (I have a sorta small group of close friends) She is so negative, always grumpy and when she hits or slaps, she ISN'T playing around. Once she slapped one of my other BFF's because she interuppted her. She is also so bossy. She yells over and over again. And when someone does something that ticks her off, even by accident, she acts like they did it on purpose. And she thinks saying 'I hate you' is funny! She calls us Dodos and dummies and blames ME for teaching them to her. And when I corrected my friend because she misunderstood something, she called me a know-it-all and my "BFF" said it was a "warning". I can see why people hate her. In her old school, and this school. Lots of people warned me too, to stay away from her. But I didn't listen and now I have a frenemy. I feel used too because I was like a stepping stone to friends. I know it may seem self-centered but I am close to all the girls in my class and when she hanged out with me, she hang out with my other friends, totally ignoring me. She played mean pranks on me twice, and both times I was on the verge of tears. I know it may seem like I'm making this all up but I've been holding it inside so long and I just want to let it off my chest (that was weird thing to say lol) Its a relief to tell someone how I feel. Even if I don't know them. Now I'm gonna have to face her at school again when school starts. Ugh. This is why a really really want new students, to be my new Bffs, even a boy. (Boys are pretty easy to become friends with, they also aren't full of drama)
teamjonas11 o wow we totally belive u, not! i cant belive u could even think up a lie thats so mean.
teamjonas11 you r such a lair and if your not your fucken mean
i agree with teamjoerocker. none of that is possible! no one is that psycho! nobody wears a tiara and there is never really a summer queen and king!! thats the stupidest lie ever!! if ya wanna lie make it freakin' believable!! That movie is too princess-y NONE OF IT IS POSSIBLE!! : the bad guy always wins at the beginning with an evil plan then it backfires and the baddie looses everything she has. NOT POSSIBLE! IT'S REALITY!!!!! LMAO.... funny tho
teamjonas11 that's terrible i would rather be Lasilana's friend
teamjonas11 that was kinda mean, even tho the girl is a total psycho.
teamjonas11, thats a lie. nothing could be that like the movie! at lest not in real life.
please read everything i put down there
okay i just came from summer camp. i met this weirdo mean girl named Lanalisa. she thought she was all sweet and nice and she wore all these designer dresses and pumps because she was sure she was gonna be Summer Queen. she even slapped on makeup every hour and WORE A FREAKIN TIARA! IT WAS LIKE BUNKING WITH SOME PRINCESS! okay back to the story. you ppl know the movie princess protection program, right? its almost just like my story. I'm more rosie my bff/roommate tiffani is more like carter and lanalisa is more chelsea. so anyway, at the end of camp we had this little Summer Fun Dance and they had a Summer Queen and Summer King. this cute boy named Landon won by ONE vote! Then i beat out Lanalisa by ONE vote! then when we came off stage she stormed right up to me and demanded to have the crown. i said no then walked away.she ran after me so tiffani rushed over with a pitcher of sticky SKIN HAIR CLOTHES staining punch and threw it all over lanalisa. haha karma! so we dashed out to the parking lot where we were getting picked up by our dads. before we could climb in the cars lanalisa stormed out all purple and red all on her white dress tan skin blonde hair and reached for my crown. i pushed her into this muddy puddle so she looked like she pooped herself. little did i know it was a hole. she sunk in it and couldnt move in it her head sticking out. we laughed not realizing she got out after 10 minutes. she slopped over one more time and tiffani threw rocks at her and there was a bag of kat litter in the car and i dumped it on her. tiffani had a little tiara on too and lanalisa couldnt see she grabbbed tiff's tiara by mistake and put it on and ran into the dance house and everyone ran out screaming. she stunk. then i had a spare tiara in my bag we all got the little tiaras for the night. i gave it to tiffani. so this story has a happy ending! well, not for lanalisa, of course. SHES ATTENDING MY SCHOOL THIS SEMESTER! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH HHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!! ME AND TIFFANI GOTTA BEWARE BUT WERE SPREDING RUMORS THAT SHE HAS A BUNNY AND EATS THE CRAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!! HAH MORE KARMA! :]
Katiehottie: Just ask him to be friends. That's what I'd do!
I have this best friend when we were 3rd graders and I hate her so so much coz she bosses me around and she tries to be good when we are with other people and is kind when she has a favor to ask(i couldn't say no!)... Could someone help me? shhe bugs me around all the time. and when she has a problem she'll drag me wherever until her pronblem's over! Yea... Very annoying! And now we're 8th graders and she kinda changed bt she still embarrasses me in front of everybody and still ask favors(problem is she'll never stop til' I do her favor.) Can anyone help me?? I can't get rid of her coz I might hurt her feelings. Plus, the more I'll get rid of her, the more she gets meaner. Stupid concience... What do I do?