1 year ago
Help, I'm In Love With A Bad Boy!
One 4TNZ reader needs advice, ASAP!
"There's this guy that really likes me and I like him too. But there's one problem: He's always getting into trouble (like he almost got arrested once!) and has a reputation for being kind of a player. But he's really nice to me. And now he's asked me out. Should I go out with him? Or is he just bad news?"
— Confused In California
Advice from distracted_dara92:
"Dear Confused...Um, whatever, my mom wants me to blog or something because I have trouble, like, focusing. It’s not ADD, but it's weird. Case in point. Did you know that the word ‘QWERTY’ is on every keyboard. Sounds like a planet! With aliens on it. Speaking of which, do you think aliens would like chocolate? If they didn’t then we should kill them. After they showed us the way to QWERTY of course.
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"Hope this helps you, Confused In California! Good luck!"
Advice from succinctly_steve:
"no"
Okay, that was like the worst advice EVER. We're SURE you guys can do better! What do you think? Should Confused In California date her bad boy crush?
yes you should date him but just keep your guard up for a while because you don't want to get hurt in the end. if you don't do it you might regret it....
yea
Yeah totally go for it! I mean sure he is a bad boy but it seems like he's sweet around you so why not? And like the one below me, if he gets you into trouble dump him.
date him, but if he gets u in troubl dump him
You should go for it!!!!!!!! Just tell him what you don't like and say you want to go out with him too!!!
SAY NO! or else you might become just like him.
Sometimes the guys nt seriously bad, bad reps arent always true. And i think u've got to give him a chnce. If he turns out to be bad and stuff then break up. Every1 deserves a chance. Emey <3
go for it the only thing is to not let him push you into things you dont want to do
no bad choice dont do it big mistake move on
Just tell him you really like him and you want to go out with him but he has to become a little less bad!
just make the right choices with him
If you want to date him go ahead! Just dont do any of the bad boy things he wants you to do.
i dont know thats a hard decision to make are you even allowed to date him???
my bf had 3 gf,s when we were going out and i didnt figure it out tell i ssaw him kissing my ex bestfriend
LOSER
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO HE WILL CHEAT ON YOU!!!! it never happend to me getting cheated on but it must suck
i <3 bad boys i think they r hot!!!
bad boys r sexy boys
yes go like now
If he is a player than u shouldnt go for u deserve so much better! If he"s just gonna see some other chick behind ur back dont go for it!
If he is a player than u shouldnt go for u deserve so much better! If he"s just gonna see some other chick behind ur back dont go for it
Well honestly only u no wats best 4 u but in my opinion u would b beta off with out him u need some1 who can support u and have fun not some1 who's grounded and n jail well wat do u think is best 4 u listen 2 u heart on this 1 it cud really help
Well honestly only u no wats best 4 u but in my opinion u would b beta off with out him u need some1 who can support u and have fun not some1 who's grounded and n jail well wat do u think is best 4 u listen 2 u heart on this 1 it cud really help
I dont think you should even tho he sounds totally adorable...bad boys are bad news. If they are doing sumthing bad around you, you mite get in trouble for it 2
Totally bad boys are the cutest. there's a bad boy at my school and we both are like totally into each other i'm a good girl with a bad side and he is a bad boy with a soft sweet side everybody totally thinks i bring out his sweet side when we talk nothing else matters. we talk about really deep pressing stuff we can talk about anything , during class and never get caught i'm hoping we have the same classes this year...
Hex Ya i love bad boys!
yes!
yeah u should totally
i wouldnt even if hes kind he may seem tht way turn around and get U into TROUBLE!
Or u can talk 2 him and try 2 change him. you never know! if u think he sometimes acts like a sweetiem then there's hope deep inside him. be his friend and his helper to change around until he's good, then totally go for it! But...be careful. An extinguished fire s sometimes waiting under the...extinguisher stuff...idk, but just be careful!
no, then you'll get in an acciental pregnancy and get married in court and then you'll both go 2 jail and leave ur child alone in the foster care system
totally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !! if u want
if you like him give him a shot, talk to him and tell him that you know about his rep. and that he is on probation first sign of ANY other girl and he's out, people change.
Yes
OMG! This is a true thing that happens! Its not a chain letter! It's kinda scary at first but it really works!! Paste this message into 3 comments and prest ALT F1 and your crushes name will appear on the screen!!! It's so weird!
you should be careful around him, if he does something funny you dont like tell a trusted adult oh yea and ask people u Trust tho k?
i say go for it, maybe u can change him and get him to meet other nicer guys that dont get arrested like his friends and him. but be careful tho :D
Hmmmmm i dated a guy who has been to jail 4 a long time but is good now and hes more caring then other guys so all the girls who say no dont listen cause they dont know!
If you like him, you shouldn't care about him being a bad boy or anything, just follow your heart, we can't make the decision for you.
I think yes because you really like him, and ust because his reputation may be bad, forget about that and have fun with him!
Well, if you really like him, I say go 4 it. I've been in the same situation and that's how I met my fiance! You'll be surprised what could happen! ^.^
Say No because you do not want to end up like him and if you do you CAN get arrested and he would just be BAD influence! So ALLL boys are trouble makers just make sure they do not get into BIG trouble hope it helps!
i think you should give it a try if it dont work out break up with him.i hope this helps you confused in california.good luck.
say YES
i think that she should date the bad boy and u get lots more excitement and adventure
she should decide on her own. we dont know him or what he does! soe confused in california its your decision1 if hes hot oh yeah
she should make her own decision and follow her heart about it.we cant make the decision for her
yes
guys neva change 4 a girl..especially bad boys they have toooo much fun. i think u should go on a date, only a date, n c wat he is lyk with ppl. n then make ur decision!!!!
I don't think she should because he might end up breaking her heart. Maybe he does that to all the girls he wants to hurt. If she is going to, I'm going to warn her to be careful!