3 months ago
OMG, I am SUCH an idiot, you guys.
Last week, I was on Instant Messenger and totally started gushing about this guy I have a crush on to my friend Erin.
Anyway, I was saying things like, "He's the hottest!" "I'm gonna marry him and have his babies!" "I want to just kiss his lips all day!"
And that's when I realized I hadn't sent the messages to Erin at all. I HAD SENT IT TO MY CRUSH BY ACCIDENT!
Guess I must have just had him on the brain and, since he's on my Buddy List, I just clicked on him without thinking.
What do I do now? Do I pretend it was all just a joke? How can I look him in the eye ever again!? (Plz help. My face has been red for days...I'd like it to go back to normal eventually.)
— Cecilia, 14, Baltimore, MD
IM so sorry, Cecilia! That sux! But maybe you can blame the accident on a computer virus or something: The "I Love You" Virus, perhaps?
If that doesn't work, we would say try to make a joke out of it...like, "Hey, it's Opposite Day! You're not the hottest. You're the coolest." Hmmm...still too gushy?
It's time for YOU to help Cecilia!!! What should she do now that her crush saw her secret IM?
don't feel bad. i've done that before, but there's a huge difference between your story and mine: my crush thinks i'm all jokes. so he looks at it as a comical sorta thing. But my best vote for you, try and tell him that you were talking about another guy, make him jealous and see if he likes you!
don't feel bad. i've done that before, but there's a huge difference between your story and mine: my crush thinks i'm all jokes. so he looks at it as a comical sorta thing. But my best vote for you, try and tell him that you were talking about another guy, make him jealous and see if he likes you!
tell him it was your brother or sister. or say your friend was on ur screename
o that was u who sent that e-mail to me ??? wow i thought katlin in our math class sent that! WoW well now that i now it was her it gunna be auckward........
Tell him " sorry my cousin sent that while I was cleaning."
You should kinda make a joke and say, "Sometimes you shouldn't tell your siblings/friends certain things" So pretty much, say your siblings or friends did it to annoy you
PLEASE DONT READ THIS. YOU WILL GET KISSED ON THE NEAREST POSSIBLE FRIDAY BY THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE. TOMORROW WILL BE THE BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE. HOWEVER IF YOU DONT POST THIS COMMENT TO AT LEAST 3 VIDEOS YOU WILL DIE WITHIN 2 DAYS. NOW UV STARTED READIN DIS DUNT STOP THIS IS SO SCARY. xSEND THIS OVER TO 5 VIDEOS IN 143 MINUTES WHEN UR DONE PRESS F6 AND UR CRUSHES NAME WILL APPEAR ON THE SCREEN IN BIG LETTERS. THIS IS SO SCARY CAUSE IT ACTUALLY WORKS
ur lil sibling did it or u should have told him that u were talkin about him
yeep , your bro/ sis or cousin did it !
Say your brother did it to bug you!
i agree with anonyoums
omg sux tel him you were babysitting and the mischievious kid typed it
Well all you do is smile at him everyday and act like nothing happened and if he asks then just say your friend did it to embarass you.
just tell him tht ur bro/sis or ur friend sent tht.... idk make somethin up
I would tell him I didn't mean to send him that IM and that I was talking about a friend who likes you
tell him Erin typed it
i did that with a text message to this boy i thought was hot just say your friend was on your computer and did it as a joke a really bad joke
tell him it was a dare. that computer virus thing is good too. or just tell him your friend did it.
u should say that u were joking with ur friend and that u were beening sarcastic and didnt realy mean that
You should just go and confront him, laugh it off or snort it off, saying 'You honestly think that i wasn't joking? C'mon!' Smile, then walk away.
Say something like "oh, my friend was over and dared me to say all the junk to you. And now I got 20 dollars!". lol Thats what I would totally do! :D
you should just say its a joke or say i guess i ment to send it to my other crush
wow. that R E A L L Y sucks. i think you should tell him that your friend was on your computer just playing around or something :)
Ok you should take the advice
Wow....thats kinda serious...if that every happened to me I think I would never go back to school or outside of my house ...I would probably move away from where I live Well...it depents on if u wrote his name when u send it...if u didnt write his name on the message just say that u send it to him by accident, u wanted to send it to someone else, not him...and if u did write his name on the message then u should just tell him how u really feel...cause u may never know what will happen next...U may get lucky...U are a teenager once...so make the best out of it
That's what I'd do too. Say, "Hey, my friends and me where playing Truth or Dare at a party and they dared me to say all those things." Think he'll buy it?
JUST GO FOR IT...ASK HIM OUT WHAT U GOT TO LOSE
tell him it was one off ur friends that knew you were just frineds, or that you were being sarcastic or that it was a dare or you were joking
lol thats hallarious and has happened to me b4 lol
wow that is bad. tell him it was a dare . dares are like that thats wat my friends made me do and if i didn't let's just say i would be way worse than you
say it was a dare. sorry bout dat
yeah say it was a dare that your friend or cousin made you do but good luck with that!! cause my cousin did that to her best friend and he hung up on her and didn't really talk to her after that even though she said it was a dare her sister made her do!!I guess he really didn't like her LOL
i think u shld tell him u werent talking abouot him and if u said his name then idk wat to say
Ooh u poor dahling!!you should just say it was a dare GOOD LUCK!!
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you should just tell him you were talkimng bout another guy with the same name or just tell him you like him but you were kidding about the whole baby thing
Maybe he likes you too?
cecila i think that u should tell him how u feel and probaly he will under stand
tell him that ur friend waz IMing him and playing a prank on u. that happened to me once, too. good luck. u'll b fine.
tell him someone jacked your computer
she should tell him the truth u neva no he might like her bac ur awsome person curt<33
My name's cecilia, too.
just tell him the truth its better than hidding it from him!!!
TELL HIM IT WAS YOUR ENEMY THAT SOMEHOW SHE GOT UR PASSWORD AND STARTED DOING ALL THIS STUFF AND SENDING UR BEST FRIENDS MEAN STUFF AND THAT BOI LOVE STUFF
yeahh he will prolly like you too...who knows?
You can pretend you're friend hacked onto your account and sent him those messages, or you can say you were just kidding arround with him, or you can come clean, its not that bad.
I would just go with the flow. Maybe he feels the same! You never know until you try or ask! :D
I would say "Its all true. I want to have your babies" 99% chance he'll say yes seeing how all guy are sex hungry pigs. Lol.
Just play it off, and say it was a cousin of yours...only if he asks
that happened 2 me 1 time i juss sed my bad i was like oh i sent the wronge IM i was tlkin 2 my bff and we was tlkin bout how cute justin timberlake was or a cute famouse person you think is cute... trust me it will work l0l